Dating coach for tech professionals
Dating Coachfor Tech Professionals
Software engineers, product managers and data people spend all day on screens. Jared Laurence coaches tech professionals to get off the apps and into real conversations with women.
Jared Laurence is a dating coach for men with 20 years of experience, more than 7,000 men coached and more than 400 students now married. He works with software engineers, product managers and founders by phone and video, and runs in-person bootcamps in major US cities, so you learn to meet women off the apps.
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Watch the free customized training
Start with this free training, then book a call with Jared’s team about dating in tech.
The problem
Why dating is hard when you work in tech
Endless swiping, remote work and a hoodie dress code. Here’s what tech guys tell Jared.
The apps feel like the only option
You swipe for hours and get a handful of dates. You learn to meet women in person too.
Remote work shrank your world
Fewer chances to meet new people. You learn to build them back in.
The hoodie default
Small style upgrades make a big difference fast.
The method
How Jared Laurence coaches tech professionals
Phone and video coaching that fits sprints and on call weeks, plus in-person bootcamps in major US cities.
Meet her
Get off the screen. Jared teaches you to start conversations in person with no script, so apps become one channel of many.
Build attraction
You learn to lead the conversation, tease and show interest, so you stop sounding like a pen pal.
Texting and dates
Too many matches die in chat. You learn to move to a date within a few messages.
Keep her
Long hours and laptops at dinner hurt new relationships. You learn to stay present and build something real.
Off the apps
Where tech professionals can meet women
Remote work and apps shrink your world. These places open it back up.
Coworking spaces and cafes
Working from a cafe or coworking space a few days a week puts new people around you. Easy to start a chat on a break.
Run clubs and fitness classes
Weekly groups mean you see the same people again. Familiar faces make the second conversation easy.
Non tech events
Art openings, food festivals and wine tastings. Skip the tech meetups and you’ll meet far more women.
Your edge
What tech professionals already bring to dating
You already know how to test, measure and improve. Jared shows you how to use that with women.
You understand funnels
Dating has one too: conversations, numbers, dates. Jared helps you improve each step.
You debug
Find where things break down and fix that one thing.
You have resources
Time and money help, once you know where to put them.
Avoid these
Mistakes tech professionals make in dating
These are the habits that keep good guys in tech single.
Treating apps as the only channel
Swiping feels efficient and gets few dates. Meeting women in person adds a channel most guys ignore.
Endless texting before meeting
A week of chat before a date kills momentum. Ask her out sooner.
Talking about work and crypto
Product launches and token prices bore most dates. Talk about what you do for fun.
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Individual results vary and are not guaranteed.
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FAQ
Dating Coach for Tech Professionals: common questions
Why do tech professionals choose Jared Laurence as their dating coach?
Jared Laurence is a dating coach for men with 20 years of experience, more than 7,000 men coached and more than 400 students now married. He works with software engineers, product managers and founders by phone and video, and runs in-person bootcamps in major US cities, so you learn to meet women off the apps.
I only date through apps. Is that a problem?
No, but it shouldn’t be your only channel. Jared helps you improve your apps and start meeting women in person.
I work remote. How do I meet anyone?
Build a few weekly routines outside the house: a gym class, a cafe, a club. Jared helps you turn those into conversations.
Should I delete the dating apps?
No need. Keep them as one channel and add meeting women in person. Jared helps you do both.
I make good money. Why isn’t that enough?
Money helps, and attraction comes from how you talk and carry yourself. Jared focuses on that part.
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