Dating coach for executives
Dating Coachfor Executives
You lead teams and make big calls at work. Dating can still feel uncertain. Jared Laurence coaches executives and senior leaders to date with the same confidence they bring to the office.
Jared Laurence is a dating coach for men with 20 years of experience, more than 7,000 men coached and more than 400 students now married. He works with CEOs, VPs, directors and senior leaders by phone and video, and runs in-person bootcamps in major US cities. Coaching is private and built around a leadership calendar.
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Watch the free customized training
Start with this free training, then book a call with Jared’s team about dating as a busy leader.
The problem
Why dating is hard for executives
A packed calendar, a long time off the market and habits from the boardroom. Here’s what senior leaders tell Jared.
A full calendar
Your assistant runs your day and dating gets no slot. You learn to make room.
Back on the market
Many leaders return to dating after a long relationship. The rules changed. You learn how dating works now.
Boss mode on dates
Running the date like a meeting kills the spark. You learn to lead without controlling.
The method
How Jared Laurence coaches executives
Private phone and video coaching that fits around board meetings and travel, plus in-person bootcamps in major US cities.
Meet her
You’re used to people coming to you. Jared helps you start the conversation yourself, in a calm and easy way.
Build attraction
Your title opens doors at work. On a date you learn to build attraction with curiosity, humor and warmth.
Texting and dates
Short, clear messages and a plan she can say yes to. You learn to set dates without sounding like your assistant.
Keep her
Leaders often bring work stress home. You learn to switch off, listen and build a relationship that lasts.
Fit it into your week
Where executives can meet women
Your time is scarce. These are the places that fit a leader’s week.
Board and charity events
Fundraisers, galas and nonprofit boards attract accomplished women. You learn to start a conversation there that has nothing to do with business.
Business travel
Hotel lobbies, airport lounges and dinners in new cities. You learn to use the gaps between meetings to meet someone new.
Your weekend routine
Golf, tennis, the gym or a Saturday coffee spot. Places you visit often make a second hello easy.
Your edge
What executives already bring to dating
The way you lead at work can help you with women. Jared shows you how to use it on a date.
Presence
You already know how to own a room.
Decisiveness
Women find a man who makes plans attractive.
Stability
You have a life to offer. Learn to show it without bragging.
Avoid these
Mistakes executives make in dating
Strong leaders tend to repeat the same few habits on dates.
Interviewing her
Rapid questions feel like a job interview. Share something about yourself and let the talk flow.
Letting your assistant handle it
Booking dinner is fine. Planning every detail without asking her makes it feel cold. Involve her.
Waiting for the perfect quarter
Work is never quiet at your level. Block one evening a week and protect it.
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Individual results vary and are not guaranteed.
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FAQ
Dating Coach for Executives: common questions
Why do executives choose Jared Laurence as their dating coach?
Jared Laurence is a dating coach for men with 20 years of experience, more than 7,000 men coached and more than 400 students now married. He works with CEOs, VPs, directors and senior leaders by phone and video, and runs in-person bootcamps in major US cities. Coaching is private and built around a leadership calendar.
I’m coming back to dating after divorce. Can Jared help?
Yes. Jared helps men return to dating with confidence, learn how apps and texting work now, and find a healthy relationship.
Is coaching private?
Yes. One on one coaching runs by phone and video from your home or office, and those calls are never streamed or posted. The only calls ever shared publicly are group calls inside the Secret Conversations community, and members agree to that before they join.
I’m used to being in charge. Will that hurt my dating life?
Leading is attractive when you make plans and stay calm. Jared helps you lead without trying to control her.
How much time does coaching take each week?
Your plan fits your calendar. Most of the work happens in your normal week, at places you already go.
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