Dating coach for finance professionals
Dating Coachfor Finance Professionals
Banking, trading and finance mean long hours and high pressure. Jared Laurence coaches finance professionals to bring that drive to dating and meet a woman worth building a life with.
Jared Laurence is a dating coach for men with 20 years of experience, more than 7,000 men coached and more than 400 students now married. He works with bankers, traders, analysts and fund managers by phone and video, and runs in-person bootcamps in major US cities, so coaching fits around market hours and deal deadlines.
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Watch the free customized training
Start with this free training, then book a call with Jared’s team about dating in finance.
The problem
Why dating is hard when you work in finance
Long hours, status games and a deal mindset. This is what bankers and traders tell Jared.
The hours
Late nights and weekend work make plans hard. You get a plan that fits the job.
Status games
Leading with your job or your money attracts the wrong women. You learn to build attraction on who you are.
Transactional thinking
Treating dates like deals kills the connection. You learn to relax and enjoy it.
The method
How Jared Laurence coaches finance professionals
Phone and video coaching that works around deal flow and late nights, plus in-person bootcamps in major US cities.
Meet her
Most of your week is at the desk. Jared helps you meet women in the few hours you have, with no script.
Build attraction
Talking comp and bonuses attracts the wrong attention. You learn to build attraction with humor and confidence.
Texting and dates
Deals fall through and so do plans. You learn to reschedule fast and keep her interested when work blows up.
Keep her
Long weeks and travel strain relationships. You learn to stay consistent and build trust when you’re busy.
Fit it into your week
Where finance professionals can meet women
Your hours are long. These are the windows that actually work.
Early mornings
The gym and coffee spots before the market opens are full of driven women with similar schedules. A short chat is enough to start.
After work drinks done right
Happy hours are full of finance guys. You learn to talk to the women there instead of standing with your team.
Weekend daytime
Brunch, farmers markets and fitness classes. Weekends are your best window, so use them for meeting new people.
Your edge
What finance professionals already bring to dating
Your comfort with risk and pressure can help you with women. Jared shows you how to use it.
Comfort with risk
You can make a bold move and live with the outcome.
You read signals
Use it to spot real interest.
Discipline
Consistent effort is what makes dating work, and you already have it.
Avoid these
Mistakes finance professionals make in dating
These are the habits that keep good guys in finance single.
Leading with status
Your firm, your title and your bonus get attention from the wrong women. Lead with your personality.
Treating dates like deals
Evaluating her like an investment kills the spark. Relax and enjoy getting to know her.
Putting dating on hold until next year
There’s always another bonus cycle. Start now with small, steady steps.
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FAQ
Dating Coach for Finance Professionals: common questions
Why do finance professionals choose Jared Laurence as their dating coach?
Jared Laurence is a dating coach for men with 20 years of experience, more than 7,000 men coached and more than 400 students now married. He works with bankers, traders, analysts and fund managers by phone and video, and runs in-person bootcamps in major US cities, so coaching fits around market hours and deal deadlines.
Do women only care about money in big cities?
Money can get attention. Attraction and a relationship come from how you make her feel. Jared teaches that part.
I work 80 hour weeks during deals. Is this realistic?
Yes. Coaching runs by phone and video, and your plan flexes with busy and quiet weeks so you keep making progress.
Should I tell her what I do right away?
Answer honestly, then move on to more interesting topics. Let her get to know you before your job.
I’m good with numbers and bad with feelings. Can Jared help?
Yes. Jared teaches you how to share stories and emotions in a way that feels natural, step by step.
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